How Shallow
and Perverted: Neo-liberal crusaders and their #KissOfLove protest
This whole #KissOfLove matter
is overblown and misunderstood by these young neo-liberals and conveniently supported
by leftist liberals.
Undisputed
Fact: No one is objecting to an affectionate peck on cheeks or lips. Its
natural and beautiful. (I didnt wish to describe it - but affectionate peck happens at spur of
moment and is only momentary, maybe a second or two.)
Real Matter:
The protesters at Tamil Nadu and JNU Campus in Delhi used this opportunity to
indulge in long smooches / french-kissing & practically dry humping in
public.
So the real
question is are these young neo-liberals really ever going to continue long
smooches / kisses lasting minutes at public places - roads, malls, parks,
colleges, et al or did they just take another opportunity to attack the so
called 'Hindutva Forces'.
The protest
by some organisations which included many civil society members - the ordinary people / citizens - (having
nothing to do with the known 'hindutva forces') also protested against the
protest titled #KissOfLove which involved prolonged smooches / long french
kisses in public places making many parents / dads walking with their teen
daughters, mothers uncomfortable.
Again, I
reiterate, no one is objecting to an affectionate peck on cheeks or lips.
Question is
long kisses of sexual nature, bringing discomfort in general to the passerby's
- should that be allowed? Even bigger question, beyond this protest episode,
are these young liberal crusaders going to continue to indulge in such acts if
they believe this is now the new normal?
I also hear
some comments on social media comparing current protest against the #KissOfLove
episode with the AMU Library decision and Fatwa against Bikinis. The comments
have an undertone bracketing current protest with regressive mindset of a
section of Islamic community.
Briefly,
Aligarh Muslim University banned girls from entering library justifying
decision by reasoning - girls distract boys. The Shahi Imam of Jama Masjid,
Delhi has allegedly in past issued a religious fatwa against wearing bikini in India.
Now the
protest against long smooching / kissing in sexual manner in public is quite
different from regressive mindset of a section of religious community.
How are
issues relating to civic behaviour / public decency even comparable with
medieval / stone-age mindset of a section of Islamic community?
I am against
any kind of beyond law censorship or social policing. I believe these young
neo-liberals have missed the point.
Let me point
out an issue and throw up a challenge to these young neo-liberals. There is a burning
issue of lack of public sanitation infrastructure in India and in particular all
metro cities which are populated beyond their capacity. The view of downtrodden
defecating naked on road sides is a sight which triggers feeling of disgust /
pity. It is remotely not sexual activity in public. That is a public issue
which requires both public sanitation infrastructure and sanitary awareness
campaigns in such areas both by government and civil society. Surprisingly, the
participants to the #KissOfLove protest and their likes are absent through the
awareness programs for such matters and neither there is similar public protest
by these liberals against govt. for increasing sanitation facilities in city. I
would encourage these young liberals to protest against lack of sanitation
infrastructure by defecating outside govt. offices. We all know they are never
going to take up this challenge.
Having said
that, I have already stated that there is anyhow no objection from any quarter
of society wrt affectionate hugs and kisses. Growing up in safe and liberal
city of Mumbai, I am sure atleast my friends from this city will understand
that when two friends or lovers meet, a hug or kiss whether on cheek or lips is
only quite affectionate and not of sexual nature.
The matter of debate is whether long smooches of sexual nature and practically dry humping in public places should be accepted as 'new normal'.
PDA - Public
Display of Affection vs PDS - Public Display of Sexual activities. Where's the
line or should there be one?
On lighter note: the only entity to my mind which benefited from this #KissOfLove matter is Parle Products Limited which has immediately pulled out its 'Kissme' toffee advt.